Monthly Archives: August 2011
Out of Pocket
Him: I’m glad you are here with me. You are in good hands and I will take care of you. I am going to show you a wonderful time.
Me: I’m glad I’m here also. I am excited!
Him: You won’t be disappointed. We are going to sightsee, watch the sunset, eat, enjoy the nightlife.
Fast Forward…………………….
Me: Thank you so much for being a wonderful host! I am having the time of my life! I need to write something, I haven’t written anything all week.
Him: It’s ok! Just relax and enjoy yourself. Your fans will understand you are on vacation and they will be there when you write another post.
Ok guys I’m sorry I haven’t posted in a while. I am out-of-town with a great guy making wonderful memories…………..Stay tuned 
Do you remember a wonderful dating experience you’ve had? Everything just flowed right…Almost too perfect! I’d like to hear about it.
Truthseeker411
Crazy Week/Your Truth About Dating
It’s been one of those weeks. I could make up excuses but I won’t. Truthseeker has been swamped at work and extremely tired. I will return by the end of the week with a new post. It happens to the best of us. However; I do have a Your Truth About a Liar for you…………..
Dear Truthseeker411,
I really f****d things up with my girl! I hung out with one of her best friends and we had sex. I did it because I thought she was messing around with her ex because I saw calls from him on her phone and someone saw them at the mall. I later found out it was not what I thought. I feel really bad and I am afraid I am going to lose her. She doesn’t know yet and I am torn between telling her or not telling her. What the f*** should I do?
That’s my truth about a liar!
Stupid F*** from NYC
Dear Stupid F***,
All I can say is WOW!!! That was pretty low and I can’t believe you did that to your girlfriend. What ever happened to communication? If you were worried about her creeping with her ex, why didn’t you ask? Then you slept with her bestfriend to top it all off. You better be prepared to lose her if you do tell her. If you don’t tell her, I think it will be revealed eventually. Basically it’s a catch 22. Secrets like that never stay hidden. You are in some deep shit and you better hope she can forgive you when the truth does come out. That was definitely a stupid move and it just may cost you.
Sincerely,
Truthseeker411
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Ok everyone what do you think? Please give input to Stupid F*** from NYC.
The Morningson’s Sunshine
I wanted to show a different side of me. This is the first poem I have ever written. I wrote it in 2006. Enjoy!
The Morningson’s Sunshine
He likes to gaze into her eyes when time allows it,
To look at her beauty, her grace, and her smile.
He likes to watch her as she lights up any space,
To see her bright vivid color make flowers bloom.
He likes to feel her beaming down on him,
To feel her warmth on a cool breezy day.
He likes to envision her morning rise and evening set,
To dream about seeing her forever.
He likes to be close to her because of the fruit she bears,
To see love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, and gentleness all over her face.
He looks into the heaven pondering a wonderful thought.
Oh yes! My Child
The Morningson’s Sunshine is heaven-sent.
By: Truthseeker411
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The Green Light
Know your worth……….Your stock just went up!
Sometimes we find ourselves in situations that we don’t want to be in; yet we don’t want to make a move and get out of it. Being in a relationship that is toxic clearly is a waste of time. We tend to hang in there in hopes that it will get better or that the person will change. Sometimes we stay in relationships because of the amount of years together or simply because we are just too afraid to move on. The truth of the matter is if a person doesn’t value you or the relationship…………you probably shouldn’t be with them. Life is too short to settle for anything less.
There is this guy I know. He is a very nice, intelligent, and respectable man. He’s educated, attractive, and financially stable. The problem is he is with a woman that doesn’t respect him or value the relationship. He treats her like a queen but she doesn’t appreciate it. She takes him for granted all the time. She doesn’t spend time with him. She hangs out with friends all the time. She doesn’t contribute anything to the relationship. He has confronted her many times and she would temporarily clean up her act. Then it’s back to the same thing. She knows he isn’t going to leave. He has proven that over and over. They have been dating for a few years now. At one point he wanted to marry her but now he knows that wouldn’t be wise. Still he can’t let go. He says he has invested a lot of time in the relationship and he is hoping she will change. He doesn’t want to start over with someone else.
I know what many of you are thinking; especially the ladies……………this guy is stupid!
The thing is ladies, we have been guilty of doing the same thing. It’s easy to see when we are watching the scene but when we are the actual character, we are blinded. Ladies have stayed in relationships that are not going anywhere since the beginning of time. For whatever the reason is, I know a lot of women who have been in his shoes. We think they will change or get better. We don’t want to let all of those years go to waste. Oh and let’s not forget this one………….not having the courage to move on!
Always know your worth! Never settle for anything. Don’t stay in a relationship that isn’t happy, healthy, or isn’t going anywhere. Have the courage to walk away. If they can’t reciprocate what you give in the relationship, someone else can. Tell them they got the green light, so stop holding up traffic and GO!
Check out this video http://youtu.be/cZ17obs-bYM?t=1m9s
Have you ever been or stayed in a dead-end relationship? Do you know your worth? Have you ever had to give someone the green light?
Truthseeker411
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Jack Rabbits and Juice Boxes
Okay so one day recently my sister friends and I were in Wal-Mart shopping and talking. One friend decided she had to have her weekly dosage of fun in a pouch. She searched and searched for her fun in a pouch. Now me and the other friend were astonished because she was determined to have that fun in a pouch. It was like a crack addict looking for the next high. She was ranting and raving “I can’t believe they don’t have it! Every Wal-mart has it!” I finally say well what are you looking for? She says “A Mommy’s Capri Sun”………..I replied, “what the hell is that?” Her response was that mom’s have their own Capri Suns. The children live for their juice boxes and animal crackers. Why can’t moms live for the adult version? My friend basically told me to get with the program. She said it was one of her stress relievers after taking care of her kids and husband.
After this hilarious scene in Wal-Mart, I decided to pay tribute to all the Single Mother’s that are on the grind daily……………Doing what they have to do!
Single Mothers are constantly taking care of everyone and everything but they often neglect themselves. They work, cook, clean, pack lunches, chauffeur, and forever shop for juice boxes and animal crackers. The to do list is always full. Well try adding dating to all the madness. The thing about it is that Single Mothers need to have something just for them. They need a little piece of heaven every once in a while. What I have noticed among my friends that are single mothers is that they are creating their own little heaven by treating themselves to a few little simple pleasures. Some pleasures may be shopping, a night out, a massage, a vacation, or just a simple Daily’s Frozen Pouch. These Single Mother’s are also trying to date. Let’s just say it’s no better than the Single Ladies without children. We all know too well that the dating game is a rat race and it sucks!
I have another friend whose a single mom that has taking the fun in a pouch to a new level. She has a ritual to make her self feel better after a failed date or when she needs a little r and r (you know what I mean) She pulls out a Daily’s Margarita Pouch and her new friend Jack Rabbit and party until all the stress is gone. She feels every woman should have her very own Jack Rabbit because he aims to please, he doesn’t lie or cheat, and he never leaves. She said you only have to keep it clean and operating with batteries. It’s the perfect animal cracker for women! She said it doesn’t take the place of a man but it comes very close. She has had countless encounters with her Jack Rabbit and Juice Box. She says she doesn’t plan to give up on dating and finding her mister right but in the meantime Jack and Daily’s will be her simple pleasures.
So to all my Single Mother’s and Single Women when that man doesn’t act right, you have stress on the job, or you are home alone and need to exhale, don’t be afraid to join the revolution of Jack Rabbits and Juice Boxes! Get your small piece of heaven on earth! It’s about time we get our Capri Suns and animal crackers
Comments are welcomed!
Truthseeker411
Spring Fling and Summer Lovin
I was just thinking it’s Back to School Time. The summer is about to end and football season will begin soon. This made me think about the fun times of spring and summer. The time when the ladies show off those freshly shaved legs and cute pedicures. Shorts, sundresses, rompers are the trend of the season. Not to mention, rockin the cute shades and sexy swimsuits. It’s enough to send the men into a feeding frenzy! Oh and the men are showing off those rock hard abs and beautiful arms. Their hair is always freshly cut and some love to rock those fedoras. The confidence and the swag they have is overwhelmingly sexy. Let the battle of the sexes begin! Everyone is on the prowl for a………
So ladies if your man started acting up after Valentine’s Day, blame it on the warm temperatures and blooming flowers. He probably didn’t want to be tied down in a relationship. Why bring sand to the beach? And fellas if your woman has lost a few extra pounds and asked for space, more than likely she wanted to add a few numbers to her little black book. It’s something about that spring fever and summer madness that makes everyone crazy. Well if you are still with your man or woman then hopefully you added a little sizzle to relationship because it is definitely hot out there. I do mean literally and figuratively
Let’s talk about Spring Fling! What is a Spring Fling anyway? Well according to the urban dictionary it is a casual relationship between two persons who are attracted to one another. This can involve puppy love, sex, or perhaps just “hooking up”. It can also refer to a fling that takes place during the named season. (Btw………..Spring is when most animals mate!) With that being said, if you meet a guy or girl during a Spring Festival, Spring Break or, Spring Getaway it may not be your soul mate.It just may be someone to kick it with during the three most beautiful months of the year. If it does evolve into a wonderful romance……….then you are one of the lucky ones. In my opinion there is nothing wrong with having a Spring Fling. Sometimes this happens after a long romance that went sour or when you have been totally stressed with school, work, or both. There are quite a few ladies that aren’t comfortable with the idea of a Spring Fling for various reasons. I say go ahead girl and do your thing………………. You only live once! Besides men have done this shit for years. You may have been a Spring Fling and didn’t know it. For example, have you ever started a romance and it was going well and you guys were having fun and then within 3-6 months it’s over. I hate to break it to you but you were a Spring Fling.
Now what about Summer Lovin? It’s a sexual adventure free of hassles, commitments or drama, timed for the summer only. It’s not just limited to sex. Summer Lovin is something light and fun-filled with nothing to worry about at the end of the season. It’s usually not exclusive to one person and ends in a mutual agreement of friendship. This takes me back to Sandy and Danny in the movie Grease. Oh don’t act like you don’t remember the movie! They had a summer fling that evolved into a complicated relationship by the fall and winter, partly because of the infamous “representative” Danny put on during the summer. Now granted they did get it worked out and they fell in love and drove off into the sunset. It doesn’t happen that way all the time but you can still enjoy Summer Lovin and not be attached or exclusive. Ladies, I know that we want our flings and lovin to end this way but let’s stop kidding ourselves. Life isn’t a fairy tale and we are not Cinderella. Can we have a happy ending? Hell Yes!! But we can also live in the moment, have fun, and just maybe create our own happy ending. Think about it like this…….you are looking good and it’s summer time. You have three carefree months of not being stuck in a serious relationship but all the perks of one with just a little Spring Fling and Summer Lovin!
So go ahead girlfriend and just Enjoy Yourself like Michael Jackson says. Live your life off the wall. You’ll be happy you did and you will definitely have great memories. If the men can do it, so can we!
Have you ever had a spring fling or summer romance? How did it end? Did you enjoy it? Would you do it again?
Truthseeker411
Stay tuned for the Fall Kiss and Winter Cuddle follow-up!
Your Truth About a Liar 8-5-11
This is our first Your Truth About a Liar story. Check it out!
Dear Truthseeker411,
I have a truth about a liar story for you. I am pregnant and the guy that thinks he is the father isn’t. I told him I was pregnant and he just assumed he was the father. We dated for a little while and broke things off. I started hanging out with another guy and we were intimate. A few weeks later me and the other guy was intimate. I believe I was pregnant already. I was trying to tell both guys but my ex is really excited about being a father. The other guy doesn’t know yet. Either way it’s going to be drama.
Yours truly,
Scared from Alabama
Dear Scared from Alabama,
You are in a dilemma! The thing is there is no way around the truth. You are going to have to be honest with both men. They deserve to know. I am sure a DNA test is in order, so you may want to think about that. The sooner you tell the truth the better off you will be. Things like this never stay hidden. I hope this helps. Best of luck to you!
Truthseeker 411
For the Fellas
Today I want to celebrate MEN! I know we have a world full of cheating, lying, scheming ass men but there are still a few good men left. Today is the day for the man who is taking care of his business by being faithful, loyal, trustworthy, a provider, a friend, a lover, a supporter………basically an all around good guy. Thank you for being YOU! To all the men who was once before a lowdown dirty dog and decided to turn over a new leaf, Thank you! You are or will make some woman very happy. I know sometimes you feel out numbered and that you have to pay for the sins of another man. Keep doing what you are doing! It’s your day, embrace it. Woman may talk about how men are jerks but the bottom line………We still need and want you…….not to mention we love you!
Let me tell you what women love about you:
- your drive and ambition
- your confidence
- your honesty
- your sense of humor
- your appearance
- how you defend our honor
- how you handle business
Fellas, you are very strong and sexy! God created you just for us. How could we not love that?
To all the women, tell your husband, your boyfriend, your lover, your friend that today his day and he is Awesome!!
Ladies, what are some things you love about men? Share an awesome experience you had with a man whether it’s your husband, father, brother, friend, etc.
Fellas feel free to give feedback. We want to hear from you.
Truthseeker411
